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Sanctity and pleasure, feminists and rabbis
Both Rabbis Safran and Adlerstein raise legitimate issues that challenge me and other mental health professionals in the sex therapy field as well as educators and counselors. Both rabbis refer to auto-induced female arousal and pleasure, and appear quite …
What I learned about sexual pleasure by tapping virtual vulvas
Note: The following descriptions may be considered NSFW. This morning at my breakfast table I learned how to pleasure another woman with my boyfriend. Sex education site OMGYes is starting conversations about female pleasure, via some experimental new methods.
North Korea’s top military officials reportedly hold sex parties with young teenage-girl ‘pleasure squad’
Welcome to the secret high-class sex parties for North Korea’s elite, where schoolgirls as young as 13 are allegedly forced into servitude for their leaders’ pleasure. The girls are picked out at random by soldiers – sometimes from their own school …
Is Sexual Pleasure Taboo?
A caller on the Diane Rehm radio show just now described himself as “a Christian man” and went on to criticize — justly, in my view — the effect of church attitudes towards towards girls’ sexuality. The topic of the show was the new book Girls & Sex …
The 4 Portals To More Sexual Pleasure In Your Life
As an internationally known sex educator, I speak with women and couples every day who feel stuck around feeling and creating sexual pleasure in their lives. What is sexual pleasure anyway? Who defines that? Pleasure means different things to different …
The Pleasure Paradox
I need to out myself. Sometimes in standing for women’s sexual pleasure, I forget or purposefully shut down my range. Rather than feeling and honoring my frustration, anger, and pain, I judge it. I tell myself I “shouldn’t” feel this “negative” emotion …
‘Girls & Sex’ And The Importance Of Talking To Young Women About Pleasure
Author Peggy Orenstein says that when it comes to sexuality, girls today are receiving mixed messages. Girls hear that “they’re supposed to be sexy, they’re supposed to perform sexually for boys,” Orenstein tells Fresh Air’s Terry Gross, “but that their …
Against the cult of the pussy eaters
As a thoroughly modern straight woman, I understand the political allure of demanding that a man go down on me. To insist on sexual pleasure—empowering! To tell a man to put his face in my ostensibly shameful genitals—transgressive! The vision of a …
Love takes a while for one in three women: Relationship expert says some have a sexual appetite that only fires up in response to pleasure
There is no such thing as a sex drive for 30 per cent of women, according to a leading psychologist. US sex expert Dr Emily Nagoski claims women only experience sexual desire in response to gradual pleasure – not as a sudden ‘lightning bolt to the genitals …
Migrants get bizarre ‘sexual pleasure’ advice in project paid for by the German government
The bizarre project – complete with graphic graphics – is being financed by the German government and comes at a time when tensions between migrants and natives are still tense following the mass sexual assaults on women in Cologne on New Year’s Eve.